(First of all the intent of this post is not to cut anyone down. I have withheld names of coaches so as not to give the impression otherwise. I will give credit where credit is due but I don't intend to bash anyone here. I simply want to document Ethan's journey and part of that is changing teams and the reasoning behind those changes. If there is one thing I have learned it's that each kid and each coach come with their own personality and different things work for different people. I do appreciate everyone that has been a part of Ethan's journey.)
Ethan began swimming on the YMCA team in Norfolk, Nebraska called the Aquajets. It was a good little team and the coach was really fun and had a good relationship with his swimmers. Ethan was really taught some good fundamentals. He had learned all of the strokes except the Breast Stroke before we found out that we were moving to Utah.
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Head Coach Dave Nelson, Ethan, and assistant coach Jake of the Aquajets 2011 |
I did a little research and found out that Cache Valley, Utah, where we would be moving, had 3 club swim teams. I sent e-mails to all three teams and only heard back from one. The Logan Gator Swim Team sent an e-mail back and said they would be happy to have Ethan on the team and looked forward to meeting him. So, after our move to Utah we went and met the Gator coaches and Ethan did a swim test and was put on the Silver team. I spoke with the coaches about the fact that he was just learning the Breast Stroke and they assured me that they recognized he needed help with it and they would work with him on it.
We spent a year on the Gator team. After that year Ethan could still not do the breast stroke. I was frustrated! How could a kid who was winning races in the Butterfly not be able to do the Breast Stroke?! I had talked with the coaches multiple times and nothing was happening. There were also a couple other incidences where coaches were just not coaching. It was a pretty laid back environment which is fine for some swimmers but Ethan really wanted to be winning races and progressing and he just wasn't. He got to the point where he was actually adding time to his races.
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Gator Swim-A-Thon 2013 |
We decided to make a change and we went to look at the Barracuda Swim Team. The head coach talked with me for a while, watched Ethan swim, and then talked with me some more about the plan for Ethan. He put Ethan in the Silver group with the promise they would work on his Breast Stroke and in a month or six weeks move him right up to the Gold team. The coach had some great things to say about Ethan and recognized him as a good swimmer who should be winning races.
I will just say now that the coach said all the right things to me. Your kid is great. He is going to be great with our help. He will be a top swimmer. Yada yada yada. Just what I needed to hear. So we made the switch and put Ethan on the Barracuda team.
After 6 months on the team Ethan still couldn't do the Breast Stroke! We were promised a move up to the gold team which never happened and suddenly the team wasn't going to any meets. What was going on with this team? I started to feel like the nagging mother that no one wanted to talk to. I started to get no answers to my e-mails and when I did get an answer I just got excuses. So, after the
Utah Summer Games meet I was more than ready to jump ship and try the one and only team left in the valley to try, the Cache Valley Marlins.
I contacted the Marlins head coach and asked if Ethan could come and try out their team. She said that would be fine and so we went. About this same time the Barracuda team reorganized and got a couple new coaches and Ethan was moved up to the gold team. I went and met Ethan's new coach, Dani Harding and she seemed great. She knew who Ethan was, discussed specifically what he was working on, and how to get him to the next level. Wow! I liked her. Ethan was saying really great things about her after practices too so I could tell she was really coaching and on top of things.
Ethan did go and swim with the Marlins a couple times and liked that coach fine. She seemed overwhelmed with all the swimmers and the practice times conflicted with our school schedule. Ethan made the decision to stay on the Barracuda team. I talked with him about what I saw were the pros and cons of making the switch but he made the decision and I have to say I think he made the right one. He has made a lot of progress in the last few months.
Ethan also started meeting with Alissa Wallace, the coach we met at the Utah Summer Games. She has been fantastic for him!! He meets with her once a week for an hour just one on one and you really can't beat that. She is really fixing all of his little stroke problems and bad habits.
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Ethan watching films with Alissa during practice |
I think it's really hard as a parent to navigate for your children. Ethan wants to be a collegiate swimmer and he is working hard to meet that goal. As a mom I want him to have every opportunity to get there. But what do you do when you live in a very small valley with very limited choices? I feel blessed that there are at least multiple teams here to choose from but what do you do when they all seem to be mediocre? I don't want to have to tell my kid that he can't have his dream because of where we live.
You go get your dream, Ethan!